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Frequently Asked Questions About Anxiety & OCD Therapy
How do I know if what I’m experiencing is anxiety or OCD?
Anxiety and OCD can show up in different ways, but both often involve persistent worry, intrusive thoughts, or a strong urge to feel certain or in control. OCD typically includes repetitive thoughts, images, or urges paired with behaviors or mental rituals meant to reduce distress. You don’t need to have this figured out before starting therapy—part of our work is understanding what’s actually happening and what kind of support will be most helpful.
Will therapy make my anxiety or OCD worse at first?
It’s common to worry about this. Therapy can sometimes bring awareness to patterns you’ve been living with for a long time, but it shouldn’t feel overwhelming or unsafe. I move at a pace that feels manageable and collaborative. You’re never forced into anything, and we check in regularly about what feels supportive as we go.
Do intrusive thoughts mean something about me?
No. Intrusive thoughts are a common experience in anxiety and OCD, and they do not reflect your character, intentions, or values. One of the goals of therapy is helping you understand these thoughts differently so they feel less frightening, less urgent, and less personal.
Do I have to stop my compulsions or behaviors right away?
No. Therapy is not about taking things away abruptly or pushing you before you’re ready. We focus on building understanding, trust, and skills first. Any changes happen gradually and collaboratively, based on what feels doable and aligned with your goals.
Is online therapy effective for anxiety and OCD?
Yes. Research shows that online therapy is just as effective as in-person therapy for anxiety and OCD. Many clients find that being in their own space actually helps them feel more comfortable, open, and consistent with sessions.
How long does therapy take to start feeling helpful?
Everyone’s timeline is different. Some people notice small shifts early on like feeling more understood or less alone, while deeper changes build over time. Therapy isn’t about quick fixes, but about creating steady, meaningful progress that lasts.
How do I get started?
The first step is a free 15-minute consultation, where we can talk briefly about what’s been going on and see if working together feels like a good fit. There’s no pressure, just a chance to connect and ask questions.
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Frequently Asked Questions About Skin Picking & Hair Pulling (BFRBs)
Are skin picking and hair pulling really a mental health concern?
Yes. Skin picking and hair pulling are known as body-focused repetitive behaviors (BFRBs). They’re recognized mental health conditions—not bad habits or signs of weak willpower. These behaviors are often ways the nervous system copes with stress, anxiety, or uncomfortable sensations.
Why can’t I just stop, even when I really want to?
BFRBs are often automatic and body-based, meaning they can happen without conscious intention. Willpower alone usually isn’t enough. Therapy focuses on understanding triggers, patterns, and nervous system responses—so change becomes more possible and less frustrating.
Does having a BFRB mean something is “wrong” with me?
No. Having a BFRB does not mean you’re broken or flawed. Many people experience these behaviors, often quietly and with a lot of shame. Therapy helps reduce self-blame and build a more compassionate understanding of what’s happening.
Will therapy make me stop picking or pulling completely?
The goal of therapy isn’t perfection. For many clients, progress looks like fewer urges, less intensity, more awareness, and greater ability to interrupt patterns. Just as importantly, therapy helps reduce shame and distress, even as behavior change happens gradually.
Is online therapy effective for BFRBs?
Yes. Online therapy is effective for treating BFRBs, and many clients find it easier to engage from the comfort and privacy of their own space. Being at home can actually make it easier to notice patterns and practice new tools in real time.
What if I feel embarrassed or ashamed to reach out?
You’re not alone in feeling this way. Many clients come in feeling hesitant or unsure, but therapy is a judgment-free space. You don’t need to explain or justify your behavior to be met with understanding and support.
How do I get started?
The first step is a free 15-minute consultation, where we can talk briefly about what’s been going on and see if working together feels like a good fit. There’s no pressure, just a chance to connect.
[Schedule a Free 15-Minute Consultation]
Frequently Asked Questions About Therapy for Stressful Life Transitions
How do I know if what I’m going through is “enough” to seek therapy?
You don’t need to be in crisis for therapy to be helpful. If a life change like divorce, caregiving, health concerns, or another major shift is affecting your mood, energy, relationships, or sense of stability, that’s reason enough. Therapy isn’t about comparing pain; it’s about support.
Will therapy try to push me to make big decisions?
No. Therapy isn’t about forcing decisions or rushing clarity. It’s a supportive space to explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace, so decisions, if and when they come, feel more grounded and aligned.
What if my situation isn’t going to change?
Many life transitions involve circumstances you can’t control. Therapy can still be deeply helpful by supporting how you cope, respond, and care for yourself within those realities. Relief often comes from feeling more steady, supported, and less alone, even when life remains complicated.
I feel emotionally exhausted. Can therapy really help with that?
Yes. Many clients come to therapy feeling drained from carrying too much for too long. Therapy can help reduce emotional overload, quiet mental noise, and create space to breathe, reflect, and restore energy over time.
Does therapy help with caregiving stress or family dynamics?
Absolutely. Caring for aging parents or navigating family changes can bring up guilt, grief, resentment, and confusion. Therapy provides a space to process these emotions, strengthen boundaries, and communicate more clearly without judgment.
Is online therapy effective during stressful life changes?
Yes. Online therapy is just as effective as in-person therapy and often more accessible during busy or emotionally demanding seasons. Many clients appreciate being able to attend sessions from the comfort and privacy of their own space.
How do I get started?
The first step is a free 15-minute consultation, where we can briefly talk about what’s been going on and see if working together feels like a good fit. There’s no pressure—just a chance to connect.
[Schedule a Free 15-Minute Consultation]